When you are looking at someone, look at them like its an investment. Because if you are going to spend 60% of your free time with this person then you must get something real out of it. If in the 40% that you are not with the person and half of that time is spent stressed. And at the end of the day you break up, all in all you wasted 80% of your free time on something that didn't materialize. You might as well spend that time that time thinking about your life.
Anyway coming back to the story. ladies please use your head not your heart. all these people that say do what your heart tells you dont tell you that your heart doesn't take things literally. I don't like giving relationship advice cause most of the time i think that the person doesn't deserve to be in that situation. I'm not God so I will not tell you to leave that person. all that is up to you but what I will try to do is make you realize that you are paining more than you get pleasure.
Life is not a fairytale. The strong ones move on and the weak ones fall off. Take your time to find the right person. The right guy does not need to go about spraying bullets and hoping that he catches something. The right guy is a sniper and picks out his target carefully. The shot fired is precise and makes the kill that wins the war. No point going around hurting the innocent who go on to hurt more innocent. In the end no one wins. Just a bunch of bitter people blaming each other. Which takes me back to where I started.
The sad thing is my closest friends are also in there situations. Please open your eyes and see..................
Lets start accepting our mistakes and making better decisions
G-flexxx signing out
you can never look at someone like an ivestment cause look it up in e dictionary
ReplyDelete1. the purchase of a financial product or other item of value with an expectation of favorable future returns. In general terms, investment means the use money in the hope of making more money.
2. In business, the purchase by a producer of a physical good, such as durable equipment or inventory, in the hope of improving future business.
do u realise wat each one has in common purchase, u cant relate people to business terms unless unless u think of wat u will have as a business agreement<- thats thinkin with your head ne.
you say think with you head and not your heart, bt wat you really should be saying is think with both if i think only wit my head i satrt to think of oh yes nigga got this n nigga got that my head picks up quality my heart picks up wat really matters,bt if i think only with my heart alone ill fall as my heart flutters. bt if i work wit both my decision would be better.
you do realise your heart doesnt have a brain ur heart is not the one that tells u go hurt the next does it,your head comes up wit e plan all by itself?is it me or is
thinkin wit my heart is soundin better n better now,bt in reality we need to think wit both cse your head over thinks and your heart helps u sifer ur thoughts its like ying n yang you have to have both for the best resaults.....
lookin at some1 as an ivestment brings about problems...cse ur already over thinkin things........
ReplyDeletean investment is not always financial. In this case it includes the input of time and dedication which you expect a return. using both is good. The point is to use the head more and accept where ever mistakes are made which a lot of people dont do
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