Today is a Monday and unfortunately i just have to start the week annoyed. Women always complaining about men. Well excuse me if men are dogs then what are female dogs. Yes we all know that beautiful word. Female dogs are equally bad coz they go about receiving it from the whole neighbourhood. no questions.
I think people are looking for something to blame for not finding true love. As far as i'm concerned women steal men from each other so that already tells you something. Thats not the dudes fault. Thats your fault for not doing enough to keep your man and vice versa. Even if its sexual, it still means you were not doing something right. If all he wants is the physical things you should have picked it up earlier. People need to start taking responsibilities for some of the poor decision making that goes on these days. If you give sexual favours early into a relationship and the dude leaves you for someone else for the same reasons then change your strategy. Next time dont give someone anything. See how that works out. If the dude is quick to leave bravo. if he stays at least you have done something to help find out more about that person. Anything less than 6 months is not waiting.
The way i see it women keep making the same mistakes. Going for the same kind of guy or starting relationships the same way. learn from the past. apply it. remember it. Another problem is people take any feelings and think it will lead to something. we cant live like that. feelings come and go but you need to know the ones that will stay and change your life. You can find a person that you could like in every country but theres always that one that sticks out more than others. dont neglect that one because you have come across something thats new and interesting. most likely it will quickly become old and uninteresting .
For goodness sake also dont keep letting off someone for the same crimes. thats digging your grave. Pushing control over to his side. Some women make mistakes of forgiving after forgiving a person that will not let go of that misbehaving. Some women want to search too hard for the perfect man. sorry there isnt such a thing. Be realistic and go for the most realistic but has more of the qualities you want. If you live believing you will find your Knight in shining then go ahead. Walk into the night and across the plains of the world. The rest of us shreks will stay where we are. I hate fairytales. theres no fairytale in this world. relationships are hard. find a way to make yours work. you are definately not going to get it easy.
If you see that love isnt working, stop complaining and live. Some of us trying to make the most of what we have are tired of negativity. i aint particularly fond of a lot of women's actions. Some female friends do act inappropriately at times. Only people who have genuinely NEVER hurt a person of the opposite whether in or not in a relationship deserve to complain. I dont believe there are many of them. The rest of you suck it up and wise up. Its like a thief complaining that hes been robbed. Well duh..... you are a thief too aren't you. The trend is spreading to little girls who dont even know what they are talking about saying men are useless. A person who cant identify their problems and weaknesses is useless. thats what a brain is for.
My posts are getting more and more angry...... what is this world doing to me
G-flexxx signing out..............
hahahahahaha Gari take it easy i feel u though mann got a frend wu nw sees men as evil been telling her shes corrupting her mind and tht she hsn found a good man yet!!!
ReplyDeleteFacebook yacho yakutobhowa with all the status updates about peoples useless relationships so i just wanted to bring out the issue. we dont need to be told about your failed relationship everyday. keep it personal. complain to your best friend or dog or something. there are ten thousand things out there that need mentioning. hahaha
ReplyDeleteso true........................so true
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