I'm tired of hearing this.............

Excuse me all those ignorant people who feel the need to ask dumb questions. Please desist from asking things that you have not thought about before. I've had several problems with people saying wreckless statements. Like seriously........ WTF!!! We go to school for a reason.

Firstly, a few weeks ago a man in church asked where I was from. In politeness I told him that I'm from Zimbabwe and he said "Oh you came a long way. It must be hard for you to come here?" Huh......... are you kidding me? What right senses of yours made you assume It was a struggle to come here. Thats an insult to my parents who have made my life above average. Think before you speak. You might offend someone.

Secondly, people are afraid of change and are in denial that they are making changes to their lives when really they are in the same place. Well I'm not the best person to speak but I actually try although there are other things that are pending. Do not go out there and judge people to make yourself feel better because for all you know people might be shaking heads when they look at you. It's so easy to be a hypocrite that's why it is best to say things carefully. You may be the one that looks like an idiot after declaring to the whole world that you wouldnt do it.

Lastly, respect for other peoples life decisions is important. dont feel the need to impose your life on someone. if your formula works, great. you can suggest but dont keep insisting on doing things you have not been welcomed to do. The sad thing is these are all done by my friends and family. not just strangers.

Noone is perfect but lets work towards being close to it

Cool on the outside, boiling on the inside!!!

It is easy to walk by everyday and think your problems are the only ones that seem to extend rather than to end. As you walk through a crowded street, thousands of faces look at you and seem to be living a stress free life. little do you know that inside those heads there are a lot of thoughts that are causing physical and mental stress. Just like a volcano the outside does not really reveal what is building up below the earth. emotions boil to a dangerous level to which the explosion affects many people. especially when not handled well. In the same instance as a volcano erupting. if people are not aware of the situation then many people could be hurt. How else can you avoid this? there are some things a person may want to share but the reactions from friends and family discourage an individual to share the things that really bother him or her. There are some questions that a  person does not want to be asked for the mere fact that it is a realization of the dire mistakes made. The painful reminder makes it difficult to share. The best way is to believe that divine intervention comes through and takes care of its child who needs it most. The end to those problems will come. Positive thinking that a way out will be found keeps a person at bay. the tough challenges of life all need to be tackled correctly. assistance can never be underrated. a look into the sky reveals a sunny sky that is welcoming and reassures that better things will come. a pat on the back from a friend goes a long way. always make sure a friend, a relative or a lover receives that from you. it is not known when a person will break!!!

Addressing the word NIGGER!!!

Theres a very interesting debate that has been going on in the past few years about the word NIGGER. Personally i have a different view than most people. I'm gonna address it. I know some people are thinking OH NO HE DIDNT GO THERE. well yes I am. lets do this...............

Personally I have experienced racism in all four continents I have visited. The word Nigger to me is not just a word. its a word that represents  a mind set. its a word that comes with a belief. it doesnt matter if u get rid of the word. another one will come by. People need to stop worrying about how people use it and worry about how to change this stupid belief thats passed on from generation to generation. The experiment that was done with the kid to see which doll she would get between black and white just tells us that it begins at a young age. You may not train a baby to be racist but the way you behave can influence a baby to be racist without even knowing. By the time that person grows up it will be natural. its what they know. its not acting out of rage or whatever. It's acting out of nature. It's inevitable that we all have some sort of culture that we will not like. It doesn't make you a bad person. What makes you a bad person is public degradation of that culture.

People that live up to expectations of the word NIGGER are the ones that disappoint me. We need to rid of some behaviors that leave people vulnerable for discrimination. Some of the immature behavior exemplified by the rappers we listen to everyday is just causing this discrimination. The things they do influence how we are treated to a large extent. Lets not be naive and think that these people who are more than knee deep in the lavish life mostly don't use that to show growth and development. Most end up broke when they careers die. Few know what it takes to handle their finances.Lets rid of being known for buying rims and ridiculous chains that don't help us one bit. I don't expect 100% support, not even 20% but the people that think what I am saying is appropriate then I respect you. I'm tired of people looking down on us. We are taken advantage of and we do not speak out. We need people to be real. YES BE REAL. IF YOU SEE THAT YOU ARE NOT GETTING THE REAL DEAL SPEAK OUT. No one is any one else's master. even pets have rights so a human being must speak out louder than a pet.

I dont know why it comes as a shock every time a star from Hollywood does something racist. There is a little bit of racism in everyone. Its the level thats the problem. Those that say and do crazy things must go to rehab the same way they sent that actor from Greys Anatomy to rehab for calling a co star a fag. Is it not fair that a man that does that kind of wrong doing should be put at par with one that says racist slurs? Like that former Seinfield actor that had an outburst on stage. I'm sorry but that act is not forgivable just like that. I would like to see him serve a term in rehab. stick him in the middle of a New Orleans ghetto and ask him to say NIGGER to someone if he doesnt want to do that. That would be a nice way for him to learn a lesson. Even Dog the bounty hunter, I've lost respect for you sir. I cant believe you got your show back after things you said. Going on Larry King and crying doesnt fix what you said. Your mind set is still the same. Even if we take away the word nigger, the nigger mentality remains. Rehab for you too sir. Dont try straighten out other people when you have your own dirt in your closet.

Racism will always be an issue but reducing the level of discrimination is something we should look towards. People imagine a world where everyone is brown. Well lets see how that goes but I see the world ending before even half is mixed. I want to speak out on all the people that stick poor black babies for the sake of poverty. Excuse me but every race has poverty issues so can you please put more races on that same ad. thank you. I want to speak out to all the people that make it seem like Africa = Poverty. NO Africa = people who have not spoken yet. Our time shall come and everyone knows how loud Africans can speak. I want to speak out to all the people that look down on us Black people. If you have not noticed the influx of black people in every country, watch what we are going to do next. Its my time to support all the people doing great things. If I never make it in life, I know I am fighting for the recognition of my people. Hate or love it life aint easy. I will use my ability to put words together and direct it towards a better cause.

Ummmmmm i just realized that people are more willing to give money to an organization that sticks black kids on their campaigns but turn their heads when someone says aye please help out the people in your community, WOW. seriously!!! And i'm not talking out my backside. This really happens. I would love to do a study to prove it. Well the black kid is going to give to the community and go back and give to his community of birth just to show the rest of the world that we give to all.

Peace to all the people that show me love. Everyday we learn something; I learn something new every time I meet someone. If you are reading this, teach me something I dont see about this world.

Til the voice speaks again.....................

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the internet is choking our social lives more and more everyday!!!

Today I realised the influence the internet has on our lives. It has changed us from socialising in physical presence to now cyber relationships which we are promoting more than seeing a person face to face. This is sad.......

After watching Surrogates by Ben Stiller I reflected on how we live today. There is no reason to believe that we will not end up like the people in the movie. Obviously taking away some of the fiction in the movie. To a certain extent we shall look for a way for us to do less work and stay at home and sleep or whatever we will do. Shockingly some parents are now saying contact sports are not suitable for young kids. Seriously? What? are you crazy! You want to take away the few things kids have left that dont involve some sort of electronic technology. If we kill off socialising at that age, what will happen to them when it is time for university. They wont know how to socialise and hence become angry when they are left out of activities. In the end we are breeding people who could become like the Columbine killers. oh i forgot by then everyone could be learning from home, working from home and living life at home. Aint that a thought.

A lot of people also try cyber dating. It is something i will never try for the following reasons: 1. You only learn a certain side to someone because he/she is sitting behind a screen so he/she can alter his/her responses. 2.I am not willing to risk talking to someone i cannot see. there are too many cyber attacks that take place. 3. How do you really know the person is faithful and has your interests at heart? cyber love and cyber friendship are taking over at the expense of our real relationships which have more intimacy. cyber relationships are creating a fake personality in people that they will not show in person. For some people they dont even post a real pic of themselves. It is also easy to play a role that you always wish to play but is not something about you. Why risk all these things?

Because of sites like facebook you can know a stranger more than people in your own house. e.g u get status updates about the person's activities, some will even put their emotions, you can chat as you are doing something else, people are more willing to reveal things to someone they cannot see so you tell each other things you might not tell your friends. That is sad. at some point we wont even make real efforts to maintain real friendship. I hope we can take a step back and fix things. I'm an active and adventurous person. I dont like the way my social life is dying in the hands of technology. Well, i will do my best to stop, but will u?

til we meet again

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We live in a world with boundaries

You can only be so clever to be considered normal otherwise people think you are
 mentally unstable
You can only be so crazy before people call you immature or lacking intellect
You are allowed to be so sociable and outgoing before people call you weird
You are allowed to be so confident before you are called arrogant
You are allowed to speak your mind so much before someone gets offended and destroys your life

The way I see it we are far from being developed socially. We are a confused people, collectively.
We are allowed to express ourselves so much before someone comes along and says sorry but thats not right for this world
Why dont we just shut up and live with clear boundaries and noone bothers to be himself or herself where you are given a script of how to live your life at certain points in life.
we are told to be ourselves but we cant.
To be yourself means that you are unpredictable
The Law doesnt like unpredictable people, it is difficult to control people that have many possibilities in the way they behave
A complex mind should be able to see that we are told to live so that we feel comfortable but really you can only do so much.

Express yourself and see what happens.
People are suspended from schools
Workers lose their jobs
SOmetimes for petty issues that dont even reflect how a person works
Your personal life doesnt even belong to u
It belongs to your society, law enforcers and employer.

There is disrespectful expression but I mean one that is not provoking
A person posting a status update or posting pictures from a get together does not harm anyone
Bureacracy is what runs the world. We have not achieved democracy. theoretically may be but not practically.

To end this, people must leave Tiger Woods alone. He is not obliged to tell us anything and we are not obliged to demand information from a person that is not serving a publicly appointed post.

til i return..........

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AAaahh please; Enough is enough!!!

Today is a Monday and unfortunately i just have to start the week annoyed. Women always complaining about men. Well excuse me if men are dogs then what are female dogs. Yes we all know that beautiful word. Female dogs are equally bad coz they go about receiving it from the whole neighbourhood. no questions.

I think people are looking for something to blame for not finding true love. As far as i'm concerned women steal men from each other so that already tells you something. Thats not the dudes fault. Thats your fault for not doing enough to keep your man and vice versa. Even if its sexual, it still means you were not doing something right. If all he wants is the physical things you should have picked it up earlier. People need to start taking responsibilities for some of the poor decision making that goes on these days. If you give sexual favours early into a relationship and the dude leaves you for someone else for the same reasons then change your strategy. Next time dont give someone anything. See how that works out. If the dude is quick to leave bravo. if he stays at least you have done something to help find out more about that person. Anything less than 6 months is not waiting.

The way i see it women keep making the same mistakes. Going for the same kind of guy or starting relationships the same way. learn from the past. apply it. remember it. Another problem is people take any feelings and think it will lead to something. we cant live like that. feelings come and go but you need to know the ones that will stay and change your life. You can find a person that you could like in every country but theres always that one that sticks out more than others. dont neglect that one because you have come across something thats new and interesting. most likely it will quickly become old and uninteresting .

For goodness sake also dont keep letting off someone for the same crimes. thats digging your grave. Pushing control over to his side. Some women make mistakes of forgiving after forgiving a person that will not let go of that misbehaving. Some women want to search too hard for the perfect man. sorry there isnt such a thing. Be realistic and go for the most realistic but has more of the qualities you want. If you live believing you will find your Knight in shining then go ahead. Walk into the night and across the plains of the world. The rest of us shreks will stay where we are. I hate fairytales. theres no fairytale in this world. relationships are hard. find a way to make yours work. you are definately not going to get it easy.

If you see that love isnt working, stop complaining and live. Some of us trying to make the most of what we have are tired of negativity. i aint particularly fond of a lot of women's actions. Some female friends do act inappropriately at times. Only people who have genuinely NEVER hurt a person of the opposite whether in or not in a relationship deserve to complain. I dont believe there are many of them. The rest of you suck it up and wise up. Its like a thief complaining that hes been robbed. Well duh..... you are a thief too aren't you. The trend is spreading to little girls who dont even know what they are talking about saying men are useless. A person who cant identify their problems and weaknesses is useless. thats what a brain is for.

My posts are getting more and more angry...... what is this world doing to me

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back in it................

Man its been so long I dont even remember how it's done. Anyway no worries. So what is on my mind today? time for some flexxxpression.......... here it goes.

It is 2.18 am atlantic time here in Charlottetown, Canada. My mind is buzzing with ideas but one is at the top of all discussion topics. The topic bothering me is the one of profile status updates on facebook. I know you are supposed to let people know what is going on with you but damn some people are taking it to extreme lengths. All the people pouring out their emotions through their status updates you are over doing it. We understand that you are going through a lot. That is why we are there to talk to. Dont make it punishment!

Do not overwhelm us with status updates which can be a little annoying. We all have problems and no person has problems better than the other. Some people are using their profiles to make their lives seem like hell. Well if it's that much hell give up ur body parts to people who care and need them. Do not live life to complain all the time. Live to accomplish something. How many years have people been living on this earth. The only people that we know about their problems are those who were great. They did things that changed the world so may be it is about time you changed the world and then tell us about all the things you encountered. Frankly relationship problems are problems for the whole world. Everyone who is old enough to date has them. May be you need to make a change in your life.

hopefully tomorrow i can carry on with a more positive post! short but to the point.

g-flexxx signing out.................